6 Powerful Femdom BDSM Punishment Ideas To Enslave Your Sub

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If your new to the world of BDSM dating and you’re a femdom, you may be ready to come out of your proverbial mainstream sexual shell.

If that time is now, boy do I have some good BDSM punishment ideas for you.

You’re going to need to add in a full arsenal for any male submissive you date. In order to do that, you should master all the core femdom punishments. These 6 powerful femdom punishments will make sure that any male submissive respects your authority. That’s what it is all about, right? Why else would you be on a BDSM dating site like ours?

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Traditional Spankings

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I have taken flack in the past for leading my list of femdom punishments. This is because spanking, as a whole, is a bit of a mainstream sexual fetish. Some consider it a BDSM gateway or ice breaker.

But at its core, spanking is a safe, yet arousing way to deliver punishment to a sub.

Many men, particularly those new to BDSM, are often turned on by spanking. For the femdowm, you can establish a spanking hierarchy that goes from bad to severe. It’s all predicated by the offense your male sub has done.

1) Hand spanking: While hand spanking can deliver severe pain, it remains a first option, particularly for a first time offender.

2) Ruler spanking: This opens your sub up to the idea that spankings can be more severe when the hand is passed on.

3) Belt spanking: A classic belt spanking enters into a more severe from of femdom punishment. The way a belt is chosen also helps to become part of the punishment cycle. For example, if you use the same belt every time, you may command your male sub to go retrieve this belt when the time calls.

4) Paddle spanking: No doubt, paddling is the most severe. And its severity is established through less swats than that of the hand or belt. To add flare, customize your paddle. Consider wrapping electrical tape around it as a way to imply the paddle has broken in the past. Maybe have your male sub sign and date the paddle with the amount of swats given.

All in all, it’s important for femdoms to not overlook the value and power of the spanking.

Insults and Name Calling

The mental tactic of BDSM name-calling can help a femdom elevate her dominance over her male sub. Of all the BDSM punishment ideas, this one establishes that she’s the boss. It can also be highly erotic and kinky.

While insulting your sub doesn’t yield physical pain, it can inspire the sub to further submit to you. And if a sub doesn’t respect the insults, that’s when you deploy a more physical reminder, or punishment.

Bondage: Because, of course

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There is no doubt, bondage squarely fits in the center of the BDSM world. At its core, bondage contains a submissive and forces him to respect his femdom.

There are too BDSM methods to count. You have to understand your submissive’s boundaries in a clear way before embarking on the benefits of BDSM bondage.

Bondage allows the femdom to establish total, unrivaled dominance over her slave man. Here are some quick bondage ideas.

1) Cock and Ball restraints (cock rings, genital cages)

2) Wrist and ankle ties

3) Tied with ropes

4) Duct taped arms and legs

5) A cage

The bondage list really is endless.

Teasing, Teasing, and More Teasing

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Your submissive wants your pussy and your mouth. He’s a slave. He can’t have it, at least for now. You want to drive that point home.

While he’s in bondage, tease him with the power of your pussy. Deep throat a banana. Put your beautiful ass on display in the perfect lighting. Tell him how much you can’t wait for another man to fuck you.

Teasing is no holds barred BDSM.

Cuckolding

Your submissive man may need a reminder that his femdom is a much sought after sexual goddess. Nothing makes this point clearer than when he must watch her fuck another man. Cuckolding, when done right, puts on display another man’s sexual lust for the sub’s femdom. Pro tip: Make sure that you, the femdom, allow the newly introduced cuckold to enjoy himself inside of you. You might even consider a little submissive play on your part, for example, sucking the cuckold’s dick. You want to drive home the fact that you’re lusted after and that your submissive should be happy to be your slave.

“Sir, May I Watch My Favorite Show”

Subs asking for permission to do or participate in life’s trivial ongoings can be fun and exciting. If your sub fails to ask permission, your job as the dominant is to issue punishment. Asking for permission can go into more kinky zones. For example, you may require your sub to ask for permission to eat you out. Maybe that’s every Tuesday.

Asking for permission helps establish a BDSM ecosystem that you and your sub thrive in.

Conclusion

Femdom BDSM can satisfy both the femdom and sub. There are a number of femdom BDSM punishment methods, you have to choose the one that fits into you and your sub’s boundaries.

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