BDSM Dating Sites: How To Find a Perfect Submissive

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BDSM dating sites, such as Free BDSM Dating, have ushered in a new day for fetish seekers. If you are already a member, then you know how much easier it is to find a BDSM partner on a site focused on your needs. If you are trying BDSM Dating sites beyond ours, we’re sad, but we still hope you read this article. Because in the end, we are all one big community. Even if you are using our competition, we hope you find pleasure and pain wherever you belong.

BDSM dating sites are built similar to mainstream dating sites, but with one caveat: hyper-focus.

BDSM dating sites don’t try to sail any unknown waters. Mainstream, big box dating sites want to be anything and everything that makes them an extra $90 a month. While that might be profitable, those of us with an affinity for femdom dating know that we need a platform that offers a singular experience.

In BDSM, dating community is everything. That’s why BDSM dating sites are now so incredibly popular.

But while BDSM dating sites have done the heavy lifting of establishing community, its up to BDSM singles to understand the best approaches to using the sites.

So you know what that means.

Yep, a fancy fun BDSM dating site guide. If you’re looking to find the perfect submissive, hang on to your floggers, we are going to get to it.

BDSM Dating Sites: Tips, Tricks, What To Know

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First and foremost, this article is written from the dominant, or femdom’s, perspective. Often, these tips apply across all BDSM types. But I just wanted to establish that up front.

Consider a Normal Photo

What is normal?

I don’t have a great answer.

But here’s the thing. Sometimes, you might want to dull down your profile picture by removing the hardcore dominant look and appeal.

Why?

Because your perfect future submissive might be someone who’s too intimidated to establish communication with you. Many submissives sign up for BDSM dating sites to let their freak flag fly, only to get scared off by tons of intimidating avatars.

Look, you may not want a newbie sub. So there is that. But if you do, there is nothing wrong with taking a little of the edge off of your avatar and getting to know a wider array of subs. The very essence of BDSM is to mold a slave.

List Acceptable Boundaries in Your Bio

Be transparent up front, eliminate waste of time.

There are many submissives looking solely for a femdom that will spank them into shape. The big executive that’s day is ripe with ordering others around may want to go home and be bent over a table and paddled.

But, he may not want is genitals caged up.

If you don’t want a spanking only sub, then put that in your bio and save everyone the troubles. Otherwise, you’re going to field tons of questions and feelers. And when that BDSM pandora’s box is open, you’ll have subs attempting to lure you into what they want. At that juncture, your BDSM prowess falls apart.

Also, make sure that subs browsing understand if you take on new subs. If you don’t, state it plainly.

Be as transparent as possible in your bio and you’ll save yourself a lot of time and energy.

Be Active

Your activity on most BDSM dating sites helps thrust you to the top of search results. Most any modern dating site realizes that inactive profiles lose them members. The number one dating site complaint is that the site is full with fake or inactive profiles.

I get it, responding to all messages is tough. I’m not suggesting that. I’m suggesting that you reply to some. If they are clearly not for you, directly tell them you are not interested.

Also, keep your profile updated.

Subs use our Free BDSM Dating search more than any other function. If you aren’t coming up in their local search, you are missing out on a potential new man slave.

Be Inviting

Yes, you’re femdom ways don’t often allow for much humor. But until your sub is a sub, you might need to project a bit of an appealing spirit. And you don’t have to compromise your femdom position in order to do this.

You can be both funny and demanding. You can harness an authoritative disposition while still inviting submissive newbies.

If you’re not getting the messages you think you should be, try making your profile a bit more inviting and see what happens.

Conclusion

BDSM dating sites, like ours, do the heavy lifting. We establish a community of like-minded fetish folks. But in the end, how you approach your profile will make or break your chances at landing the perfect submissive.

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