7 Essential BDSM Facts All Newbies Need To Know

BDSM is more popular than ever. One of the major drivers of that popularity is the success of the hit film, Fifty Shades of Grey. Mostly, the BDSM community frowns upon that movie, but that doesn’t make it any less influential.

Unfortunately, that influence has led to a lot of confusion about what BDSM really is.

So allow us to clear some of that up.

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Sissification: Everything To Know About The Feminization Of Men

If you believe Old Spice and Ford truck commercials, you’ll have a difficult time with one of the most explored BDSM plays, sissification. Sissification allows a man to experience his own feminization. Of course, the old school man may be shivering in his shoes at the mere idea of sissification as a topic. That said, many men just aren’t open about it.

But times, they are a changing. More men are straying from what some label as toxic masculinity in exchange for a pursuit of their real inner desires. For women, it’s not big deal to explore femdom fun. But for men, being a subject of domination sometimes comes with social ousting.

The idea of a man exploring his submissive side through sissification continues to gain steam. The feminization of man as sexual pleasure is here. Lets look deeper into things.

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How To Know If A Dominant Is Authentic

No matter where you go for BDSM dating, disingenuous dominants find their way into your life. This is particularly true when you are new. Some fake dominants don’t even know they’re fake, they just hold such little understanding of BDSM dating that the experience feels authentic.

But a fake BDSM dominant can ruin a new submissive’s initial experiences. Fake BDSM dominants tend to taint experiences for BDSM newbies to a point that those newbies flee the scene.

We don’t want that happening. 

So we’ve created a guide to spotting fake dominants. I list all the traits you need to know to better your overall BDSM dating experience.

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The Most Popular Sexual Fetishes Worth Exploring

A sexual fetish is a sexual desire, or preference, that exists outside the realms of normal sex. It’s more than just a turn-on. Whereas a turn-on maybe someone lightly kissing your chest, a sexual fetish is someone clawing it. I guess that’s the easiest way to illustrate the difference. A fetish, or kink, is more active, more defined, and bolder.

Most people desire some sort of sexual fetish. But also, many of those people keep their fetishes to themselves, not even telling their husbands or wives.

But those who do choose to explore sexual fetishes sometimes end up in the world of BDSM dating. Not always, and not mostly, but definitely sometimes.

Let’s look at some of the most popular sexual fetishes.

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Beginner BDSM Tips: How Not To Ruin Your First Experience

When you’re new to the BDSM community, it’s easy to get intimidated. In fact, it’s completely normal. Just because your BDSM fantasies haunt your every free second, it doesn’t mean you won’t feel the butterflies in your stomach when the moment of action arises.

This is why it’s always imperative to have a BDSM beginner’s plan. Hence, read our BDSM beginner’s tips and put yourself at ease for your first conquest.

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Essential BDSM Tips For New Dominants

We often consider the idea of submitting yourself to a dominant as one of the most complicated, difficult endeavors in BDSM. And it’s true, serving a dominant certainly brings the struggle hard and fast. But what about becoming a dominant?

In BDSM, becoming a dominant is easier said than done. For many that swing (enjoy both submissive and dominant play), their first months becoming dominant were more difficult than their first months submitting themselves.

In BDSM, the dominant play roles confuse and confound in unexpected ways.

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