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The Benefits of BDSM Explained

The Benefits of BDSM Explained

The way BDSM is portrayed in mainstream culture, you’d have a difficult time convincing many people that BDSM is good for them. But the fact is, in a healthy, safe environment, BDSM can help people overcome traumas and live a healthier life. Take the recent news that TV star Annalynne McCord partook in BDSM with … Continue reading “The Benefits of BDSM Explained”

AnnaLynne McCord Says BDSM Helped Her Overcome Past Traumas

AnnaLynne McCord Says BDSM Helped Her Overcome Past Traumas

AnnaLynne McCord is speaking out on the benefits of BDSM in a new interview. She says that her BDSM dating relationship with “Prison Break” star Dominic Purcell helped her come to terms with past sexual traumas.

New Survey: Over 60% of BDSM Participants Have Cheated on Partners

New Survey: Over 60% of BDSM Participants Have Cheated on Partners

Talking about BDSM with a committed partner probably feels awkward and embarrassing to most people. While BDSM desires and fantasies are typical, talking about them out loud remains a taboo subject. And that’s just one reason why people tend to cheat on significant others with a BDSM partner. So why is BDSM cheating so rampant?

How To Find Your BDSM Fantasy Partner

How To Find Your BDSM Fantasy Partner

Finding the right partner in BDSM dating is critical. Not to marginalize traditional dating, but BDSM is not an area you want mishaps or miscommunications. Finding the right BDSM synergy and connection is essential in exploring your darker sexual side. And by “darker,” we of course mean, “exciting and fun.” Its the key to discovering … Continue reading “How To Find Your BDSM Fantasy Partner”

7 Essential BDSM Facts All Newbies Need To Know

7 Essential BDSM Facts All Newbies Need To Know

BDSM is more popular than ever. One of the major drivers of that popularity is the success of the hit film, Fifty Shades of Grey. Mostly, the BDSM community frowns upon that movie, but that doesn’t make it any less influential. Unfortunately, that influence has led to a lot of confusion about what BDSM really … Continue reading “7 Essential BDSM Facts All Newbies Need To Know”

Sissification: Everything To Know About The Feminization Of Men

Sissification: Everything To Know About The Feminization Of Men

If you believe Old Spice and Ford truck commercials, you’ll have a difficult time with one of the most explored BDSM plays, sissification. Sissification allows a man to experience his own feminization. Of course, the old school man may be shivering in his shoes at the mere idea of sissification as a topic. That said, … Continue reading “Sissification: Everything To Know About The Feminization Of Men”

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