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7 Essential BDSM Facts All Newbies Need To Know

7 Essential BDSM Facts All Newbies Need To Know

BDSM is more popular than ever. One of the major drivers of that popularity is the success of the hit film, Fifty Shades of Grey. Mostly, the BDSM community frowns upon that movie, but that doesn’t make it any less influential. Unfortunately, that influence has led to a lot of confusion about what BDSM really … Continue reading “7 Essential BDSM Facts All Newbies Need To Know”

Sissification: Everything To Know About The Feminization Of Men

Sissification: Everything To Know About The Feminization Of Men

If you believe Old Spice and Ford truck commercials, you’ll have a difficult time with one of the most explored BDSM plays, sissification. Sissification allows a man to experience his own feminization. Of course, the old school man may be shivering in his shoes at the mere idea of sissification as a topic. That said, … Continue reading “Sissification: Everything To Know About The Feminization Of Men”

BDSM in 2021: What Can We Expect?

BDSM in 2021: What Can We Expect?

2021 is upon us. When the glitter and streamers and fireworks settle, where will BDSM dating land? Hint – it’s just gonna get bigger. The world of BDSM is growing as more and more people yearn for more intensive sexual connections.

How To Dominate a Submissive Without Hitting

How To Dominate a Submissive Without Hitting

The title alone feels like a tricky quandary, doesn’t it? How would you dominate a submissive without physical, striking punishments? And why would self-proclaimed masochists desire pain-free punishments? There’s a tremendous amount to unwrap here, so let’s get to it.

How To Know If A Dominant Is Authentic

How To Know If A Dominant Is Authentic

No matter where you go for BDSM dating, disingenuous dominants find their way into your life. This is particularly true when you are new. Some fake dominants don’t even know they’re fake, they just hold such little understanding of BDSM dating that the experience feels authentic. But a fake BDSM dominant can ruin a new … Continue reading “How To Know If A Dominant Is Authentic”

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The Most Popular Sexual Fetishes Worth Exploring

A sexual fetish is a sexual desire, or preference, that exists outside the realms of normal sex. It’s more than just a turn-on. Whereas a turn-on maybe someone lightly kissing your chest, a sexual fetish is someone clawing it. I guess that’s the easiest way to illustrate the difference. A fetish, or kink, is more … Continue reading “The Most Popular Sexual Fetishes Worth Exploring”

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